When Should we try again?

Thats the question we keep asking each other. When should we try again? My body is not completely back to normal. I’ve had 1 period since I lost my baby in February. My husband wants to wait until we take a possible trip in October. I’m worried that waiting that long will only cause longer delay because what if we get pregnant again and the baby has Meckel Gruber and then we have to start IVF.

There are so many thoughts I struggle with on a daily basis about all that will have to go into us trying again. We just moved to New York, with a possible move somewhere else in December. I liked my doctor in Atlanta. I trust her. I don’t want to find someone else. I worry no one will take care of me the way she did. I already had my Orlando Dr drop the ball. I don’t want that to happen again. Then, the CVS testing which will be done at 9 weeks. How will this go about for payment with new bills and laws being passed? Ugh so many things. Sometimes I wonder how 16 year old girls “accidentally” get pregnant, because I feel like as a 30 year old, its so freaking hard and stressful!!

But I digress. I don’t know what plan of action to take. My husband doesn’t want to go on a big vacation with me being pregnant, and I don’t want to put it off that long…I guess this will have to be continued.


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